The Greater Yin and Yang

Simply just energies but not just any type of energy. It makes up traits that defines who you are as a person. It lies within you and when balanced, you experience a greater sense of fulfillment. What energy do you exude?

Months ago, I wouldn’t say I had an idea of what feminine energy was. Heard of it of course but that was it. I wouldn’t also say I have a full knowledge of it but I have enough to know that I’m not fully in my feminine energy. And this topic actually came to me at a point when I had made a mental decision that solitude was the way for me to understand myself and emotions better.

Feminine energy is said to be nurturing, compassionate, receptive, caring, vulnerable, prioritizing feelings and embracing your intuition. And it’s normal for a lot of females to think they have this energy but its wrong. In this century, I feel we indeed have a lot of masculine females and a lot of masculine men that aren’t in their full masculinity and this goes even way back before this generation.

Masculine energy is seen like being assertive, problem solving, action oriented, logical, longing for admiration. Everyone has both energies. Only that one is more prominent than the other. Although these energies are not determined by gender, females predominantly default to feminine energy and men default to the masculine energy.

What I did realize is that in the case of women possessing more masculine energy, it is the necessities in her life that enforces the energy to come out more. And most times, its brought about from ‘survival response’ as I call it. Or just how she was brought up. All that matters is surviving and being there for yourself. No surprise why we see some women these days with the terms ‘we don’t need men’, ‘men are trash’ . And I say these because of I’ve seen women that would so much love to just chill at home and have their men take care of them and provide but where are the men? So when you work your ass off and have all you ever need, the men don’t count for anything, do they? But if I look at it that way, its giving ‘wounded feminine energy’ but that’s the reality of some ladies and also, there are women who tap more into their masculine energy cause they chose too and we see a lot of women now striving for greatness. Me personally, I do think that if the world had a lot of responsible masculine men back in the days, there wouldn’t be so much women now pushing beyond limits. That aside.

Ladies having more masculine energy can affect their romantic relationship with men and vice versa because when there are two similar energies in a relationship, there would be clash. Or in a case where the man is giving feminine tendencies, which is becoming the latest apparently. It gets a bit twisty here though. But its known that opposite attracts. And its easier for women to fall into their feminine energy although it takes some work. The work is simply a man fully in his masculine and is leading properly. The lady naturally submits and falls back into her full feminine. Its that simple. And for the man to be fully in his masculine too, a full feminine energy can enforce that more.

Let him do things for you. Men love to take care of who they want or love. They want to take control and put action. It makes him feel more masculine and makes the lady feel more feminine just being. And the honest truth is that the full divine feminine and full masculine energy coming together is just beautiful. A lot of you still get it wrong. If you picture it right, there is the man leading, providing, being there for his woman, taking actions, making plans and the woman in her divine essence being supportive, caring, nurturing, empathetic and following his lead. Like it is written in the bible. Relationships fail cause of clash in energies. Don’t get it twisted❤